What's The T Thursday: How would you feel if your man or women had a "on a break" baby?

First of all let me start this is off with screaming at the top of my lungs SCANDAL IS BACK!! It was a long as winter break but it's over and I am all smiles. Anyway back to telling you what the T is this Thursday. So rapper Ludacris recently won custody of his "on a break" baby with a young lady by the name of Tamika Fuller. The court awarded him custody because apparently he was the more stable parent. They felt Tamika was not financially stable enough to take care of their 13 month old baby girl Cal. Now this would be all fine in good because the important thing is that he child is being well taken care of but there is a rumor going around that Ludacris doesn't have good intentions for going to court to fight for custody. Allegedly Luda only wanted to fight for custody to avoid the $7,000 a month child support he would have to pay to the mother of his child. Tamika has been rumored to say that Ludacris has never seen the 13 month old child since she was born, wanted her to get an abortion and thought that if she had the baby it would ruin his career. She was also rumored to say that he rushed into the marriage with wife Eudoxie in order to help his efforts at getting custody. After hearing all the rumors I hope that #1 regardless of the drama their daughter is taken care of and doesn't have to deal with her parents drama, #2 I think it is sad that a mother has to be separated from her child, and has to deal with a another women taking over her roll as a mother and #3 I feel bad for Eudoxie having to deal with the drama and that the marriage might have been based of Luda just trying to avoid paying child support.Think about when/if you were on a break from your boyfriend, which is never really "a break"( I'm sure they were still talking and sleeping together, maybe not, I doubt it though) and you reunite and it feels so good, only to come find out he had a whole baby while you were gone. No matter what rules and conditions you both set while on this break it still has to hurt. A similar thing happened with Gabrielle Union who's husband also had a "on a break" baby. My question is how would you feel if your man or women had a baby while you were on a relationship break and would you be able to accept the child? Me personally, love is a crazy thing, I can't say that I wouldn't accept the child because it's not the child's fault and we were on a break . At the same time seeing the child, knowing that the person I loved had sex and had a baby with someone else would definitely hurt my feelings and I would feel some type of way about the entire situation. Regardless of how I felt, if I was truly was in love, I can't say for a fact that I wouldn't stay and deal with the current situation the best was I could.  How do you feel about this topic? I would love to read your answers to the question in the comments below!!!! Have a great Thursday and don't forget Scandals back, How To Get Away With Murders back....ad I also watch Vampire Diaries which is back too lol.